I recently read a new book "Sitting Still Like a Frog" by Eline Snel who aims to teach children mindfulness skills while providing useful tools to help them better manage anxiety and regulate emotions. I was struck by her thorough yet relatable definition and explanation of what mindfulness is and isn't. I've read a number of books, articles, and other publications on mindfulness yet think this is the most efficient explanation I've come across. So Thank You to Eline Snel, Author of "Sitting Still Like a Frog: Mindfulness Exercises for Kids and Their Parents" Please enjoy part of her introduction below:
Mindfulness is nothing other than present moment awareness,
an open and friendly willingness to understand what is going on in and around
you. It means living in the present moment (which is not the same as thinking
about the present moment) without judging or ignoring anything or getting
carried away by the pressures of everyday life.
When you are present while waking up, while grocery
shopping, with your children’s sweet smiles, and with every major and minor
conflict, your mind is not elsewhere but right here. You save energy, as you
are aware of what is happening while it is happening. This mindful, friendly
presence changes your behavior as well as your attitude toward yourself and
your children.
Mindfulness is feeling the sun on you skin, feeling the
salty tears rolling down your cheeks, feeling a ripple of frustration in our
body. Mindfulness is experiencing both joy and misery as and when they occur,
without having to do something about it or having an immediate reaction or
opinion. Mindfulness is directing your friendly awareness to the here and now,
at every moment. But mindfulness practice involves some effort and
intentionality.
“Sitting Still Like a Frog: Mindfulness Exercises for Kids and Their Parents”
Introduction to Mindfulness – Pages 2-3
Eline Snel
Until Next Time ~ Be Well

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